HELLO STEEMIANS!!
Today I wanna talk about self Esteem and how to deal with Low-esteem ..
Self-esteem is all about self-respect and confidence. It is a belief in oneself. This is the ability to cherish yourself and your Labour.
It boils down to personal acceptance. Again,it is coming to terms with those aspects of yourself that you cannot change. Through self-esteem, you develop a positive self-image and a secured life.
Many atimes,some people take this fact negatively, saying that it is a life of conceit,pride and arrogance. However, in this its far from all these. Its is not one thinking himself better than his neighbor. It just simply means one identifying himself as a normal human being,created for a purpose and seeking to pursue it through the normal channels. He is satisfied and happy. He looks at himself and give praises to God.
However I'm not talking about human perfection, but a possession of resources for personal improvement and development. This will make the youth happier in his pursuit in life.
I wanna ask this questions to all stemians reading this, Do you believe in yourself and uniqueness?? Let me repeat, You're wonderfully made. In the word of Walt Whitman,"we are all Here to contribute a verse".
What are those things that speak about your uniqueness and matchlessness? Discover,pursue and develop them to the extreme. This is your first charge. Many atimes, some people sit at a place, just to welcome approval from others.
Work on accepting yourself, You are the only You that you have. Try to be the best you can in life.
HOW CAN I KNOW LOW SELF-ESTEEM
As I address the issue about low self-esteem, I would want you all to know it and how it develops. People deal with low self-esteem on daily basis. It is synonymous with lack of total confidence,which keeps you bound.
Now these are what can lead to low self-esteem:Like indecision, inner shame, seeking perfection, fear of future, being pessimistic.
Self-esteem talks of self-respect and confidence.it boils down to personal acceptance.
Low-self-esteemed girl
TO OVERCOME LOW-SELF ESTEEM FIRSTLY KILL SHYNESS
Shyness has been one of the questions in the mind of many people.some people feel very shy to stand in the public. They may know what to say but always defeated by the monster SHYNESS.
Some have been asking this questions on how to overcome this problem. As they think on the way to feel better about them ,they still find themselves in the horrible pit of shyness.
It has been a daunting task for many people. Being shy can happen to any age level.Some older people feel the same way too.
Now how can I overcome shyness?? You need a level of confidence and concentration on yourself
Shyness is the ability to establish a connection with other people. Shy people find it difficult to express themselves publicly.
They avoid communication that may bring out their person.
When you're shy,you are keeping some of your potentials at a regulated point. Because of their deficiency, they stay in the corner by themselves.
Are you in the struggle of overcoming your shyness,you can firstly :
Work on yourself-confidience
Ignore the fact,and move forward
You have to look at yourself as an impressive figure.
Be friendly and learn the idea of smiling on occasions.
NOW LET ME TALK ABOUT SELF-DISCIPLINE
Discipline is a training that helps you develop self-control,character, orderliness and also efficiency. Its an exercise or training for personal development or living.
Discipline is a positive force in a life of a prospective youth. Once ignored, it brings disaster in a journey of life. Its the foundation of success.
Again once omitted in life,there will be no good success,performance, progress or result. It will tell on the life of a youth.
It amazes me when I see a youth living without discipline in life. He walks,talks,eats anyhow at the detriment of his future and destiny. For you to achieve excellence in life,in any field whatsoever, SELF-DISCIPLINE is one of the key to reach there.
Now self discipline is controlling of one's desire,actions and habits. By it you should have the capability to control your impulse and behavior. Its an art for a positive reasoning of the mind for effectiness and guidance in life. When discipline is achieved, then you will be able to desist from certain negative character and turn down wrong pleasures .
When your discipline is complete,you can make a right choice and decisions. You can move ahead by taking solid actions regardless of many mountains and obstacles on your way.
Your lifestyle should be in consonance with your belief and character. Remember, your right should be intact as you walk on this way: it means learning to focus your mind and energies on your goals and persevere until they are accomplished.
One of the easiest way to be an achiever is by self Discipline . it allows you reach your destination in due time and makes you to live a life void of regret and defeat .
Rome was not built in a day. Begin like a baby to develop. DEVELOPMENT IS A PROCESS. IT REQUIRES TRAINING BY STEP'S BEFORE MATURITY. Just make up your mind and begin to pursue this gold. You may get injured as you trained but with persitentency, you shall stand.
There are still many benefits of self discipline
Like it makes one live a life of honor,
Makes one productive,builds courage and assurance.
Taking control of your life is a personal management. I want y'all to understand that part of your success depends on you and your choice.Each day you live,centers on your choice.
Taking control of your life requires caution, leadership and responsibility in all areas of your life. It means gluing to your set goal and visions irresp of odds.
When you take control of your life and situations, you will be promising and able to solve problem easily.
*Now I know what maybe ringing in our mind now. How can I take charge now things are getting out of hand in our world. No doubt today calls for me of greater muscle .which we are one of them. There are things you cannot master or control. If they are problems, there are available solutions. You should clearly know that you are in charge if your life and you are in your position today because of the choice and decisions you made so far. So becareful.
KEEP STEEMING💯👍