I will try to present the situation impartially. I live with my husband for almost 9 years, although I signed less than six months ago. I have a child from the first marriage, there are no joint children. I think that all the years I lived were quite good, apart from the minor quarrels that everyone has. My husband does not drink, does not smoke, friends do not spend much time with family, very family and home, my relations are good with my son, he cares, he does his homework. He is a man, in my opinion, too correct and uncommunicative.
I'm completely different, I like to communicate, sometimes (not often!) I allow myself to get out in karaoke or a restaurant with friends. My husband never particularly liked it, but always let go, justifying that he understands that I sometimes need to unwind.
The day before yesterday, I was just in karaoke, when I realized that it was already very late, and I had already drunk enough. I called my husband and asked me to pick him up, he came, went into the hall at the moment when a man came up to me, inviting me to dance, I refused, and he insisted. We went out with the husband from the institution and got into the car, where he started shouting at me and insulting me, I actually answered the same thing, for which I eventually got a few times over my face.
I'm horrified, life collapsed! Now he asks for forgiveness, all depressed. I really love him, but I do not want to be a pear-pear. What to do? If I forgive, everyone says that they will hit again. After all, nine years there was nothing like that! Is this really the end?