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The very moment we entered this world, there was already a contest of choice. The choice has been there all along. No one imprint them into our minds. They are just unconsciously inscribed into our memories. Wether we like it or not , we are all part of this choice. Although, we might pretend to be innocent of this out claim physics of contemplation, our minds bears us witness to this guilty act of separation.
When a child is born the gender inquiries lies in our eyes and heart. Even the mother expectation still lies in the identity of this new born baby of hers. Sometimes people tends to argue that it's God who gives children so why should many be prejudice about what the turn out of this child in question might be but Society advancement influences has somehow rob us off of this long believed fate. We now believed that the choice of one's baby identity lies all starts from the manipulation of the bedroom. If the sex position is well strategize then the gender of the child could be determined and contained.
Most of the times, we blame Society for making those choices but deep in us, we are the Society. We are the voices that speak, without us the society we live in would be long gone into extinction. The choice really matter when the parents are looking for a successor. The definite expected head should be a male and nothing else . In the olden days, people's expectation of this sort has led to broken marriages, death of the mother through numerous birthrate just for the sake of looking for male that would continue the father's legacy; legacy be it good or bad, it doesn't count inasmuch there are few things to leave behind when he is gone, he , the father thinks that he is a legacy the world can't fathom , and lastly the separation of both childless married couple, etc.
The choice of this separation is perfect example of how life can be unfair to the female child. She fails off short of this preference choice that the society makes. Even the mother makes it more difficult for her girl child herself. There is this tendency of her telling and separating her girl child from the gradual development that society would be rendering unconsciously to the her beloved jewel. The girl child is therefore put in the corner of the busy part of the 'room' and this speaks in the fact that the outside world is no place for the softness of her claims....
The girl, boy child are the product of choice wether it been a hand made or God's innovation....it is a fate the world would keep making and keep making over and over again.