"Why Love Is Not Enough"
Everyone has different maturity, and matches of maturity is important to having a good relationship. Basically, maturity is a set of views and beliefs on things. They can be categorized into personal values, phylosphies of life, and world view which are personal level, social level, and worldwide level respectively.
If you two have different maturity. it is hard to reach to mutual acceptance sometimes. Therefore all three levels are important in your relationship. Knowledge and beliefs about love is categorize into personal level. Many guys fail to get women attracted to them is because they have limiting beliefs above love.
When you lack of knowledge about love. it is easily to be caught up in her drama and selfishness. Most guys will treat women as nice as them can just want to satisfy her desire. Eventually, your woman will be tired of you because you are not a challenge to her anymore. Women secretly crave for the challenges to get a man she likes to like her back. When you are not a challenge to her anymore, her attraction for you will fade out very soon.
Gradually, she does not follow those unspoken expectations and this is leading into confusion, disillusionment, and disappointment. Eventually, your relationships are full with anger, hatred and bitterness. Undoubtedly this is harmful to your relationships.
When you two have too much difference of maturity, that means you two are not compatible currently. It's love that brings you two to be together, but it's also love separates you two, because when you and her are not compatible, being together is merely continually harm each other.