How does one get someone to send them a message? Get them so interested that they cannot wait to send you one? You have to throw them a rubix cube. Remember those? An online Rubix Cube is what I call a seduction trigger. Most online dating profiles are simply advertisements with no call to action. They want to message you but can't really come up with anything to say. Hi, how are you? Wassup? How are you today? I liked your profile wanna chat? These non interesting messages get tossed quicker than a spinach salad at a hotel restaurant and for good reason. They are lame…boring… and most of all not very engaging.
I CREATED THE ONLINE RUBIX CUBE FOR THIS VERY REASON.. TOO GET MORE MESSAGES (Ha I had to call it something)
After you complete your dating profile (which should simply be a glimpse into your fantastic life) you throw them a bone AKA a call to action. It’s a question that gets their mind going. You simply add a question at the end of your profile for them to answer. Something fun to ponder. This will make you stand out immediately as a fun adventurous person. If they were on the fence in sending you a message this might just get them to pull the trigger.
Here are a few examples:
Thanks for checking out my profile but before you go riddle me this....
- If we robbed a bank for a million dollars what would you spend your half of the money on?
- What are the 3 things in life you cannot live without?
- If we had only 48 hours left on earth what would be the first thing you do?
You can easily come up with your own and switch them around each and every week. Don't be afraid of being different... be afraid of being like everyone else. Give it a try!
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