Like I’ve stated countless times and shall continue to say, black men are not obligated to protect random black women. Period. The only women black men are obligated to protect are the women in their lives, whether they are significant others, family members or friends. That’s it. A random Keisha getting hemmed up by a random Billy Bob, I’m not obligated at all to intervene if I don’t want to and guess what, I’m not about to be shamed either. The temporary benefits this random woman gets for me stepping in to protect her do not outweigh the potential issues that may result on my end if me jumping in to help her causes me to be killed or thrown in jail. If either scenario happened, that random black woman I rescued would not be there to contribute to any legal fees or funeral expenses or whatever. More than likely she’ll just go about her merry little life living carefree. So I don’t even understand why this is even a discussion and why black women pretend to get caught up all in their feels over this subject.
Let’s keep it real, if black women want protection from random dudes out there, then guess what, you need to go get a man and walk around with him everywhere you go. That’s it. If you can’t do that, then you need to take up a self-defense class and go get a weapon. Those are you’re only options. Making endless videos crying about black men not protecting black women is not about to make any black man with common sense risk his life or freedom over protecting your random stranger ass. That’s not reality. Having a shared skin color is not a pre-requisite for assuming that all black men are all black women’s secret service. Now if a nigga wants to help you if you are in distress, good for him. But if a nigga doesn’t want to help you because he isn’t trying to add any additional issues to his life, then it is what it is and all of your black girl magic tears is not about to change any of that.
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