This is my opinion for the people that have choices only.
Today's society is one big mess, but people still have kids and throw them in school, is not ready, and thinking in the moment, or ending up aborting, as a growing adult you must, I don't know, use your brain. I know it's a hard thing to use but please consider it for once.
Society is a mess let's be honestly, so unless you're good at scheduling, has patience, is ready for anything or is prepared, and prepared money wise, it's probably not a good idea to have children especially nowadays. Because nowadays you definitely have to think about it for a good while before you make a bad choice, yeah you couples think for a long while.