A married life of a women (specially middle class) in asian countries is really tough . she has to suffer a lot of problems and hurdles to life their life, some of them i want to discuess here.
joint family system
mostly families life in joint family system in india pakistan system, and there are a lot of work burden with mentally and words taunt have to face. when a girl go to husband's house there she have to follow husband rules as well as their family member's rules as well. she have to obey husband , husband's father , husband's mother as well as husband's sisters and brothers.
Work Burden
sudden she got a house work burden , like washing cloths of husband as well as their family members cloths, which becomes tough because she have to do work for 7,8 members.
same problem she has to face in kitchen , she have to cook food for her self and husband as well as for husband's father, mother , brothers and sisters,. in reply they dont say thanks some time if food in not good cooked she has to face taunts .
Children
After a children girl become machine to do work . she forget herself and her life . she has to work as she is like a machine , house hold work as well as home work,
work place life
working for women is tough in india pakistan environment , but if she want to do work she have to get permission from her husband then from husband's family. after many hurdles if she got the permission then she have to do work place work as well as all other work continue to do that she was doing at home before doing a job.
there are some positive points for her
that will be discussed in an other post