You have to be the glue that holds your family together.
Or at least, you have to contribute to your family. That whole thought about “I love him when he’s vulnerable and when he cries” is true, but it is loved because it’s the exception, not the rule.
And relating it back to my other post, the internet family teaches you to question everything. That there are a thousand ways to raise children and whatever way you were raised is wrong, for one reason or another.
Good luck. Find a way not to believe the internet. To believe in yourself, and that you are a worthy centerpoint for your family.
You’re all they’ve got.