#1. Patience: Kids will find a Billion Ways to Frustrate us. You will have to tell them the same Instructions over and over and over again. It's part of the Process. Kids minds are wired Differently so Just Understand that they are going to need you to Remember what it was like when you had a 5 year old brain or whatever Age as this will ground you with Understanding that is So important for building Patience.
#2. Encouragement: Kids are always being Told what to do. It's good to Balance this with lots of Encouragement when they Do things the right way or when they succeed at their tasks.
#3. Affection: When kids become Frustrated or Give up on themselves, it's always good to Pat them on the Head or give them a squeeze. Hugs can oftentimes Reassure the Child that They're Valued even when they Fail. It also Reaffirms your Love for them which helps them see the Bigger Picture.. that when all else Fails, You will be there for them Regardless with Loving Affection.
#4. Repeat the First 3 Over and Over again.