BEING A PARENT CAN BE AN INTERESTING EXPERIENCE AT LEAST SOMETIMES SO TODAY I WILL SHARE WITH YOU SOME CRUCIAL PARENTING TIPS IN ORDER TO MAKE THE MOST OF PARENTHOOD FOR PARENTS AND MAKE THE BEST START FOR CHILDREN :)
It would be nice if every child when is born comes with attached instruction how to handle :) Doesn't happen parent are as newborn in the new role as a baby most of the time, and this actually does not get even easier as you become parents second or third time, because every child is different.
However they are great resources around. I did come across such a great parenting help manual, which is not focused on blaming but opposite looking for the root of certain problem and easy fix. Parent does not become a specialist in parenting in the moment when they become a parent, the moment when they become a parent this is the begin of the journey, I want this journey to be as happy as possible for children as well as rewarding for parents.
- If your child intentionally disturb you, it is because you are not enough physically affectionate.
- If your child is lying, it means you overreacted to the mistake in the past.
- If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advise them more than you encourage them.
- If your child doesn't stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in the public, parents shouldn't do so even in front of siblings, friends or cousins.
- If you buy everything for your children, and they still take things that belong to them, it is because you don't let them choose.
- If your child is too clamsy, it is because you help them too quickly, don't remove every obstacle from their path.
- If your child is jealous, the reason might be you compared them with others consistently.
- If your child gets angry quickly, the reason might be you have not praised them enough. They only get attention misbehaving.
- If your child does not respect others feelings, the reason might be you always ordering them - not giving importance to their feelings.
- If your child is secretive, the reason is you blow things very big.
- If the child behave rudely, it is learnt from the parents or others living with them .
I will tell you something when I was reading this few hours ago I was just feeling so bless for the fact I can share this with as many people as possible to help the humanity in becoming better and better every step they take.
Wishing you all the best
Lots of love from Margo XXX