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Love is love only if its object is sincerely appreciated for what it is. If someone really loves you, he will not mind your defects, be they physical or temperamental, and he will stay with you because you are fine with him as you are. To be with someone you have to insist and fight, if you see that the other person is not completely there with you when you are together, if it is not completely at ease, then it means that there is something wrong, that for that person to be with you, to participate in your joys and your pains, is a sacrifice, which probably he would prefer to be somewhere else and with a completely different company. Well, if so, if you have the feeling that he or she is with you only to do you a favor, it is the case that you gather courage with two hands and that you truncate report immediately.

Because a relationship based on piety is not a relationship and above all it cannot last.

If there is no full and unconditional acceptance of the other person, there can be no love. In these cases we are together for convenience, for fear of loneliness, not to make a bad impression from a social point of view. In a word, for a set of reasons all attributable to one word: selfishness.