Hi,
Life cannot be separated from moments, and moments cannot be without life. In life there will always be different moments, because life creates it own moments. Not only that in life we all creates our own moments consciously and unconsciously. And those moments some are good and some are bad but their real and the memories sometimes lasts forever. The memories lasts forever because the experiences we get from those special moments do not leave us the same, they transform us to new levels of understanding, love, relationship, perceptions etc.
Secare Pavese said, "We never remember days, only moments" if I may add, they may be painful moments or joyful, but we will always remember them.
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If this true, that we will always remember moments in our life, then it is important to pay attention on how we respond or how we choose to live through those moments. Because we will live with those moments in our memory sometimes forever. We all know that moments may come as a result of our wise or poor choices and decisions, sometimes are caused by other people and many times from life realities. Nevertheless we have a part to play in every moment. It can either be reactively of pro actively. Live moments leave memories.
Special moments in life creates opportunities to rejoice, to learn, to earn(not only money but a reputation also) to teach etc. What we need is to make the most of each moment. The lesson you learn in the special moments they never leave you, but also when you choose special to teach someone or your children, those principles will stick with them. So do not underestimate the power of special moments.
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Second we should take initiative to creates special moments that will leave a legacy of good memory to our loved one's, wife, children, friends etc. To achieve this, we need to be intentional, wise, creative and proactive. We can create good and priceless memories to our spouses and children that will live with them forever. They do not need to be expensive or huge, just special, creative and from a sincere love.
You do not have to wait until Valentine to do something special for your spouse, you do not have wait for Christmas or new year to do something special for your kids and family. Do not even wait for a birthday, a graduation or an achievement of your loved ones to do something special for them, even though you may and the memory may stuck with them. But in such calendars, they always expect something in the back of their minds even if they do not verbalize it sometimes.
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It should come as a surprise to them. Out of the blue. I have never met a person who hate surprise or special beautiful moments from the loved ones. Especially women and the children; men I'm talking are you listening?
Special moments leave lasting memories and can be created, so go and build a culture of creating
special moments for beautiful memories in the mind of your special one's. Remember their called moments because they do not last long, but the memory of what was experienced lasts forever. so to create good memories create good moments.
I hope you enjoyed this brief post, thank you for you time.
#makeyourlifecounttothepeopleyouloveandcare.
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