Not infrequently we meet someone who is often busy complaining about the lack of his wife, or a husband complains about the lack of her husband. In fact, when he complained actually he had told the world that he was a bad partner.
Is it true? Yes, because no matter how small your partner lacks you must cover wisely. Remember, the shortcomings are a disgrace, and you also have to realize that there is also a disgrace in you.
So what if your partner is back complaining about your shortcomings? Do not feel your selfishness ?, then if yes of course you also have to be wise to keep the weaknesses that exist in your partner.
Remember, your partner is the best fortune and destiny from Allah, so do not exaggerate the gap that is in him just to compare with other people's partners.
You say your partner is good and not like my partner, if you make such chatter to others, then really that is when you have ignored the best gift from God.
What you should do is be grateful for his presence, because with him you can save the reward through feeling patient, sincere, and more responsible, because after all he is the best partner that God chooses for you.
So there is no need for you to argue and continue to compare the shortcomings with other people's partners.
Because you also don't know exactly how he can look good in your eyes, it could be the couple who helped him always look perfect with his patience.
from now on, keep your gaze from seeing someone else's partner better, because your partner is the best if you are wise to look after him.
You must be aware, that it's good not to be in your eyes depending on how smart your heart receives it with sincerity. And about its shortcomings, it shouldn't be a problem for you, because that's the way for you to complement each other.
He is your best partner, he is what God has chosen for you, he is your destiny, and he is your best fortune. So, whether or not it's good depends on how trustful and grateful you are for having it.
stop complaining and comparing, because he will look perfect in the eyes of anyone, if you alone patiently perfect it.
But on the contrary, he will always look bad in your eyes, if you yourself are not wise to love him sincerely. Because when you sincerely love him, love him, and look after him, then in the end you will realize that the best is created, not just looking for.