The past may indeed be very difficult to forget, especially if it was left in the past again dearly, plus what triggers the separation happened because of a third person, then really feeling hurt will often be torturous.
But whatever it is in accordance with the will of God, then there is no need to regret it too much, because if he used to leave it meant that God provided better for you instead.
And now, if you have found the right person instead, then focus on your happiness, no longer need to be complacent about opening memories in the past.
The point is, don't let your yesterday take too much of your current happiness, be grateful and keep on being sincere.
So what if the memories always appear? It's okay to remember a little, provided you can control your heart with wisdom.
Because remembering the past is not a problem, as long as you don't carry the atmosphere and regret it very much.
As well, it is undeniable that all normal people must remember the memories of their past, but a wise person must remember them while taking lessons in them.
Because after all the past will still be the past, so there's no need to ask too much why and why, just be sure that everything that is passed is the best, and whatever you get today is a gift that you should be grateful for wisely.
Just like whatever your life story is now, don't let your heart complain about what happened in the past, because everything that happened was in accordance with Allah's permission.
After all, the more you give your memory space to remember the past, meaning you have closed your heart to be happy. Because, the more you remember, the more likely you will complain.
You should focus on your current life, because it's a pity if your happiness has to be lost just because happiness in the past often appears in your memory.
If you leave it as if it continues to be real, then really until you will not be truly happy enjoying your present life.
Respect God's present gift, if at this time God has given you someone instead, then rest assured that you will be happier and more calm.
However, if you are still alone now without a new replacement, be patient! Because it means God still gives you time to improve yourself to welcome him who is better.
Be assured that God's plan is better and more beautiful, which is why you don't let your memory focus on the past, but focus on your current day, form new happiness by expressing it.