There is something about people focusing on differences, I'm not talking about the badness of differences here, I'm talking about the othering of the differences. The main thing is to understand the differences. The reason of many social norms is that some of the differences are drawn in thick, thick lines with a negative meaning.
So while we have adopted the differences, the basic thing we have to do is, in my opinion, the fact that we are the same. To realize that all of us are joys, sorrows, loves, shame, failures. When we understand that our body measurements, skin defects we have, eyebrow shape, body hairs; we will understand that there is no basic condition for recognizing, understanding and loving someone.
We define relationships, sexuality, feelings through shapes and actions. Let's give a simple example like B who likes A and B who likes B. Whether these A and B represent their own communities, that is what we have described as normal, so clearly, we are uncomfortable with every possibility, and we immediately need new definitions.
Beyond that, not only the relationship or the attraction in between, but our definitions to A and B are so clear that we do not tolerate any other situation, we do not tolerate different matches, we do not tolerate C. We're like everything in the disease of name-giving so that we can't get rid of it and feel the feeling. Unfortunately, we cannot understand and accept the love of two women, the two men to maintain their relationship without being determined as masculine / feminine, the change of the viewpoints of individuals from time to time, their fluidity and understanding.
After a while we sacrifice our attempts to define those who are not in our own definitions.
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