As I've been observing some of the interactions of people and the unexpected clashes of of misdirected emotions. What I've learned during these often rage filled explosive pray and spray engagements is, right , wrong , or indifferent people don't want to do what's right they want to be RIGHT. What I mean is, people have an allegiance to their ego that is above and beyond the moral compass. The desire to "See, I told you! I was right!!" is so much more powerful than being humble and helpful that people will go to lengths to be the coveted winner of the "I knew it" trophy. The desire to mask the terrible unfulfilling black hole that is your life by deflection. Also known as grade school gossiping. You see, if I can entice you to look away from my mess and into another I'm "safe" and I'm self medicating my way through my shitty existence. It is not only easier to deflect but also it's a small dose of ego boost to keep you from slitting your wrists in a bath tub. You may need to consider professional help if you exhibit the following, you can't wait to talk about a life or life choice that doesn't involve or affect you. If your version of "care" or "love" is that in which you feel the need to make up horrendous lies about someone else for any reason. There is a time for all things, except talking reckless shit, there's never an appropriate time to reasonlessly spew diarrhea from your mouth.
I am aware that many factors go into how a person handles situations and life's challenges. What is ALWAYS a choice in any situation is how you handle your treatment of another person. If you're not mentally strong enough to actually help someone and not be in it for a reality show like audience then you should consider focusing on things you can control. The weakness shines through in a situation where you bring a camera crew to watch a wounded animal stagger to its feet. Many people aren't mentally aware enough to realize they're projecting a very clear signal out into the world. If you're so shallow or mentally weak that your only recourse in life is "At least I'm not _name here." Syndrome. If you're unaware of this phenomenon I will explain. It's a miserable individual that isn't able to do something for the sake of another. All actions are for an audience and all designed to promote and momentarily empower the soft Charmin like individual cowering through life.
What does not evolve will go extinct. Irrational thoughts paralyze many and keep them from functional success. Through observation and self evaluation I've transitioned through multiple stages in life. This is one of the more cliche sayings but it is absolutely true. The only thing holding you back, is you!