How do we stop it indeed..... how about........ not creating hate? In other words, there is a loving way to turn someone down. Most of the time, I see ladies reject men in a way that causes them to not understand what, if anything, they did "wrong". This feeling of doing "wrong" can manifest itself is some unhealthy ways, including this "Incel" condition. Perhaps when we turn someone down, we should tell them the 100% truth as to why as opposed to, well, ignoring them? Most guys I know, this is the factor that does the most damage. Thanks for sharing.