“Why do you put your self-esteem in the hands of complete strangers...

“Why do you put your self-esteem in the hands of complete strangers?” —Helena Bonham Carter

Unfortunately we have been conditioned to seek validation from others. Because we have been raised wrong. Because we have been taught to seek approval from others about our existence.

artwork by Lorenzo Conti

I have came across few people, specially girls, who puts there self esteem, and dignity in hand of stranger just to seek some kind of love from complete stranger. This thing mostly happens in one sided relationship, where one human being let the other one control them, which is not good either, and nor am gonna say that its fault of the other one, cause you can't clap with one hand. It goes both ways just to get some attention, and in the name of the love, they loose themselves to the other person, where they completely stop giving importance to themselves and are ready to do whatever the other person say. They don't defend if they are getting called by few names, or someone is forcing them to do something against their wish, and all this cause they are dead from inside.