If you are weird like me and you are looking for love and the person you are dating is not at least as weird as yourself, the relationship is probably destined to fail.
There's no way you could ever exist in a state where primarily your weirdness is shunned and bottled up, its an unsustainable relationship.
You deserve to be able to be you with the partner of your choice and if you can't, then, its not meant to be.
Be the you you wanna be and you will attract the people like you.
Never feel pressured to be a you that is not you just so you become digestible to others for purposes of intimacy, believe me, its not worth it and will make you feel as alone as you did before if not more so.
If you're a circle you will always be a circle, even when surround by squares.
Thats why in relationships, I always say theres plenty of fish in the sea but lots tend to stick to the shallows.
Cuz i'm in the deep end, and I'll never go to the shallows again just so that I could swim with some fish for a while.
I spent years with people who were bad for me and made me feel bad, so I left them behind.
You can do the same any time.
Just a word of advice for the weird.
Its weird not to be weird.