Paano ba mag move on?!
On Advice
When you are brokenhearted, the only thing that you think will make you feel better is if he says he loves you again. But he won’t. Of the one hundred cliché lines thrown at you in an attempt to make you feel better (yung ibang advice nga mas makakasakit pa sa iyo), but there will be those few lines (minsan, yung sa hindi mo pa inasahang tao manggagaling) that will speak to you and touch your heart and soothe your soul. Those pieces of advice, you hold on to.
On Prayer
When your heart is peaceful, give thanks. Kapag masakit at namomroblema ang puso mo, magpasalamat pa rin at humingi ng lakas. When your heart is shattered into a million pieces, still give thanks, and ask that you may learn whatever life lesson it is that He wants you to learn. In both high and love, give thanks, because it is one of the surest things in life that God works for the good of those who love Him.
On Space
Cut communication. Try your best not to stalk him on Facebook and Twitter. Move on with your life. Focus on work, or a hobby, or a sport. Keep yourself busy. See your friends. See your mother friends. (Hep hep hep sinabi ng wag mong tingnan sa Facebook anong ginagawa niya ngayon eh. Pwede mong i-check, pero mas mapapatagal ang pag move on mo.) It is okay to cry. Okay lang magkulong sa kwarto buong araw (bastat walang trabaho o klase) para mag mukmok. Re-learn doing things on your own.
On Short Cuts
Feel all those yucky, disgusting, heart-shattering feelings, curl it all up into this unbelievably sad ball, and one day, when you are ready, throw it out the window. It will happen for you. Alam kong pakiramdam mo parang hindi, pero mawawala din ang sakit. Have faith, it will go away. Eventually.
On Revenge
The best revenge is not revenge. The best revenge is beauty, success and happiness. Yung sobra mong successful at saya na mapapakamot na lang siya ng ulo dahil akala niya di mo kaya kung wala siya. Pero by then, hindi mo na siya iniisip at naka move-on ka na.
Remember!
Ang sakit. Sobra. Ang sakit sakit. Alam ko ang pakiramdam nay an. But honestly, so do millions of other around you.it sucks. It really does. But hey. Nobody said that it would be easy, but you don’t have to go through it alone.
Hope you like it. (Credits to PAANO BA TO?! Book)
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