Wow that's so interesting. I can't get over "penitensya "; I grew up Catholic and there was "penance" which was the same idea of repentance, but no flogging involved. I know in ancient times, some in the Church practised self-flagellation, just like penitensya, but I had no idea it is still practised today by some. Do people see it as strange or extreme? I'm just curious.

I like your grandma's advice too for Good Friday.

So interesting, thank you!