What kind of person is considered happy and successful by others? Someone who could bring good luck and money into his life. And many dream to become such. But it turns out not at all. Why is this happening? How do the rich and the lucky differ from the poor losers?
They themselves answer these questions in books and interviews. Those whose lives have developed, tell how they have achieved it. Here are six secrets to wealth and success.
Secret # 1: they think positively
Positive thinking is an individual's ability to create an optimistic domestic installations which do not lose their relevance in the human encounter with obstacles.
W. Disney was fired from the newspaper "from-for absence of ideas", then he was betrayed by an unscrupulous business partner assigned all of its contracts, including one of the favorite characters donkey Oswald. Disney was crushed, humiliated, but not broken because it was "friends" with a world where there were many wonderful characters. On the same day, Mickey mouse was born
E. Robbins, who created the theory of personal development, in his youth was so poor that he could not pay in time for a modest apartment. One year it took him to change everything: to start the way to his dream and earn a fortune. Now he lives in a magnificent castle overlooking the ocean
The most famous lecturer and specialist in positive psychology L. hay has experienced a series of terrible failures in his youth: humiliation, poverty, cancer. She did not despair, and today gives hope to millions of people who want to bring luck and money into their lives.
Learn and you regard failure as an invaluable experience, do not condemn people and circumstances, and thank them for the "science", focus on achievements, rejoice in them.
E. Matthews in his book "Happiness in difficult times" chose flexibility as a synonym of positivity. Flexible plants bend in the wind, and hard break or break out of the ground with the root. So people: if you learn to properly treat failures, no life storms are not afraid of them.
Try to look at the world positively, and after a while you will see that events are increasingly developing in your favor: fortune loves the lucky ones, not the "sufferers".
Secret # 2: they are moving towards their inspiring goals
In his famous Stanford speech, S. jobs encouraged students to listen to their hearts and choose a vocation that would inspire them. The primary dream, but the money comes as the reward for her faithfulness, risk and courage.
Basketball star M. Jordan is proud to say that during his brilliant career missed the ring more than 9,000 times, lost about 300 matches. "And so I am a champion!"- concludes the great athlete.
Over $ 500,000,000 in fees, the excitement and worship of fans around the world, the opportunity to share their discoveries with young basketball players – that's what makes today Jordan's achievements. And he's a great husband and father, writer, coach. All because he always followed his calling and dream.
His life Jordan as it confirms the law of success Soichiro Honda that 99 defeats lead to one victory. The owner of the Empire sports motorcycles came from a poor family and was not able to attend school. But he had a dream to start his own business. Having invested all the money accumulated by heavy unskilled labor in the workshop for the production of spare parts for Toyota, Honda began to think tirelessly about his own inventions.
They laughed at him, they did not believe in him, but the first bike with an engine created by the master, marked the beginning of an industrial Empire, which to this day produces 3/4 of all motorcycles in the world and a lot of household appliances.
To attract good luck and money, you need to follow the dream, not paying attention to demotivators in the form of criticism, ridicule, jubilation of the inhabitants about the next defeat. Those who do not have a dream or the courage to realize it, find an outlet that explains to others why they will not succeed. If you are not with them, then continue to go your own way, and it will lead you to success.
Secret # 3: they don't use excuses
"Now is not the time – I'll think about it later", "It's not my fault, and unscrupulous suppliers", "we are not such a life", "That will end the crisis, and there..." These and other excuses help to justify their cowardice and inaction.
At a time when you want to feel sorry for yourself and turn off the intended path, remember the secret number 2: perhaps before the realization of your dreams in life was the last step, because under the guise of failure often come the chances of success.
Secret # 4: they are not jealous and do not seek to cause envy
Successful people have no time to envy. They understand that each person goes his own way. They learn from competitors, paying tribute to their findings and discoveries.
Envy is a destructive, not a creative feeling. Energy is spent on it, which could be directed to the movement to its goal. As well as the desire to cause envy when a person gets satisfaction not from his own positive, but from the negative emotions of others who envy him.
The poet V. Vishnevsky calls: "Respect the inability of others to earn as much as you ..." Follow this advice and move towards your goal without looking back at the envious and provoking them.
Secret № 5: they do not consider money as the meaning of their existence
Not successful people usually adhere to two extremes: some talk about money with contempt, emphasizing associating them with deception, betrayal, violence; others always complain that they do not have, as there is no luck in life.
Successful believe that the cause of wealth or poverty is not in the starting conditions of life, not in luck or bad luck, and in the thoughts of man. In other words, in order to attract good luck and money, you need to learn to think like a rich person or not to think about earnings at all, putting your heart into the business of your dreams.
Secret # 6: they don't lose faith
What does a failed person have when he loses everything? Disappointment. And successful? Faith. It helps to start all over again and, in the end, leads to great luck and big money. Don't believe? Read secret # 1 and secret # 2.