Everyone is lonely. Not in the sense that it is not surrounded by people.
Everyone is lonely because they are unique. So, the other does not. Each has its own " set " of events, experiences, memories, fantasies that affected people. Which means no one will ever be able to recognize and understand you in full. And you'll never be able to learn and understand in full. You may have heard people describe the same situation, especially those in conflict. How they interpret the same event differently. It seems that they were in different places. And with age, our essential loneliness becomes more obvious and obvious to us.
It's hard to feel alone. The habit is terrible. And can" cover " fear and despair. A lot becomes no one to share. There is no need for other people to notice and celebrate much in you. And you, too, far not all experiences and events other interesting since. And no one will "throw a stone" at a person for unconsciously or consciously inventing ways to avoid loneliness . And how many of these invented. For example, hammer head different thoughts, different things. Or so someone or something "love" that his whole life to fill them. Or start to dream about Large and Bright Love. It may seem that just did not meet such a person with whom you will approach each other so that save each other from loneliness. And people in this place begin to waste their time and energy on longing and searching for that ONE thing. And disappointed not finding. Or finding, but then again realizing that he was not able to save you from loneliness, again, disappointed. Or hard to maintain their illusions.
It is difficult to get along with the fact of loneliness, but it is possible. And then the meeting with each person, in something, let not very considerable, coinciding with you turns into the real pleasure. Maybe your other half we do not find, but can be different sides to bask on different people. Like penguins!
