It is easy and joyful to go to the work you love.
But how often do we find such gifts in our life: favorite work, creative realization and worthy earnings?
As a rule, most often you have to choose something between acceptable earnings and personal interests. And the creative component, unfortunately, reduces the profitability of the work. The thinner the boundaries and freer the flight, the more unpredictable the result may be. And at this time, bills for payment, Bank loans and hungry households can not wait.
What is left for a working citizen to do if the pay sheet pleases, and every Sunday covers melancholy?
Change the vector of thinking!
In serious spiritual practices there is such a way of achieving victory over one's ego as forcing one to engage in the most unsightly rough work, without receiving any reward except for food and basic household things. By replacing your desires with renunciation and indifference to the worldly, you can, supposedly, achieve enlightenment. All is well, and perhaps it happens as a result of the application of incredible efforts, but such a lot is prepared only to units.
All other psychologists are advised to change the vector of thinking, and simply put, to love the activity that you do. And no matter how much you hated her before you decided to love her. Our consciousness is capable of many things. You just have to take it seriously! Without total control over feelings and emotions, nothing will happen. We'll have to work on ourselves, but not on the work!
We do not work to work, but to ensure a free, comfortable, interesting and safe life. And the degree of freedom and comfort depends largely on how we feel during work. Not on the day of salary payment, but in General. On Monday morning, Wednesday afternoon, on the eve of the quarterly report, after the project…
If our working days are painful and they want to speed up, this race is extremely dangerous. Take the time to live is wrong. Living "here and now" is the only possible way to become a free and happy person. And here this hateful work…
Means, its need to come to love! No "sterpitsya – slyubitsya", but a little differently: by adding paint, bright feelings, emotions, and pleasant anticipation.
Start each day to thank yourself for a job well done. Let it be a pleasant little thing or a hobby, a Cup of coffee in a cozy coffee shop, meeting or buying a book, magazine, going to the cinema. No matter what you "give" yourself, the main thing – you deserve it. And during the working day, often think about what you expect after it.
Do not let the work to own you around the clock, remove the dust from the shoulders of the office immediately after its completion. While there is little time left to sleep and your attention is required children, wife, husband, parents. You've earned a little gift, you've taken one small step to your dream! Take a little time for yourself-as a merit.
Dream on full!
It is not interesting to work without a goal even at your favorite work, but at least the process of performing duties is not stressful. And if all the goals belong to the management, and you are only a tool to achieve them, then it's time to identify your dreams!
Take a piece of paper, a pen and write "I want" or "I dream". And then boldly, without looking back, write your wishes and dreams. It is time to admit to the hidden and seemingly impossible. And it is just as unrealizable as we do not believe in it! It is necessary to believe strongly and unconditionally, and the universe will help us all it can. Or maybe it practically all.
Agree, it is much more pleasant to earn on Monday, for example, a monthly subscription to the pool or fitness center, rather than just so much rubles. And for Tuesday and Wednesday with even more excitement, you can add one holiday day by the sea. On Thursday we work for a new dress, and on Friday we earn for a walk with children in the amusement Park. Tell them before going to work on Friday, where you go and why, and their delight will not take long to wait.
Yes, nothing has changed externally, but the internal state of dissatisfaction will definitely go away. After all, every day in front of you will be happy prospects!
It is much more difficult to love a small salary, if the work is very like. He will cope with a decent income, but boring duties are much easier.
