Its not that hard to change, but your comfortable place makes you not to..
When we feel comfortable with the facilities that provides you..free of charge and without having to search again, but you feel attached to the existing facilities .. you have no right to go further by permission of the owner. It makes you sick of all this right?
In the end you have to find yourself with your own efforts to get rid of the comfortable facilities and not being tied up anymore, then you still complaining about the situation and not to try again..you still expect the existing comfort that you had before.
What Im trying to say is .. look for something that you want with your own effort without expecting the help of others, although if its only a piece of biscuit u achieved it will surely be delicious in the end..never stop in the middle of the road when you know it is not the limit of your ability, it's just a lazy feeling that always invites you to go back to the facility that you had before.
its never too late to push yourself to reach your goal..the truth of your life.