Meditation... I came across that concept in Sex and the City where that female character in my 2 last gifs encountered an attractive man who was actually a celibate. They had a time together when the girl, Samantha went to see how he meditated with his hard on!

Sexually free, Samantha was shocked and couldn't help but even be more frustrated. I am very much a Samantha haha. It's just that I don't desire that energy. I desire a body on body interaction. But still intrigued about how meditation equals it like you said.