Good intention. Good intention is, how to say, not really worth much. I mean Hitler had good intentions too. He wouldn't have done what he was doing if he thought it was wrong. The assumption that good intentions are suffice to insure results, to insure non judgment, is based on the wrong thought that this world of humans is based on logic, one that can become common truth - I'll explain my logic and they'll definitely get it. They won't! If they would see things the way you do, they would be you and not themselves. Are you so ready to take other’s logic? Let's say UFO’s, God’s physical manifestation and contact with humans or the possibility that the one you choose to hate has quite an acceptable story too. You're not, right? You're convinced you can be right to the extent of declaring an absolute wrong that everyone should agree with, if only taking your complete story into consideration, don't you? So why would “the other” be any different? He'll judge you like you judge. Not because it makes sense to you, because it makes sense to him. He like you has only one life to live - his own.
Non judgment is impossible to insure, at least non judgment of others. Now, I know that might sound like bad news, but after sitting with it for a while, isn't it rather freeing? It's impossible to do anyhow, let's just stick to our own way and do exactly, and right now, what WE always didn't have time to do; not enough money or brains to accomplish. Having excuses just points to a non pragmatic point of view in ourselves. Waiting for the others to approve is way too much strain on yourself and on the other who holds your potential in his jail. Being good to others is not a goal to strive for. It's superficial and our emotions are so unpredictable. Being good to yourself and through that giving to others is a much more steady form of pragmatism. Follow your dreams because if they don't get attention they seek it in much less joyful ways.
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