Conflict and war cause one to take advantage of the opportunity to grow and develop normally, to live a childless life without being able to live as a child who sews it, childhood without love, no games, no affection or tomorrow's dreams. Growing up and growing. In the shadow of a traumatic event is not a condusive condition for a person
tasks and tasks in adulthood. According to Hurlock (1992, p.246) adults are individuals who have completed growth and are ready to accept positions in society along with other adults. Young adults are expected to play new roles, such as the role of spouse, sibling, and breadwinner. In adulthood a person is expected to develop new cycles, values and desires.