Hello dear Stemians, today I tell you again about the story that changed my life. But let's start with that difficult part that nobody counts, for much of all the difficulties that we as a couple have had to go through.
The first thing that struck us was to say that "Character Difference" he is a super relaxed boy, open mind and extremely forgetful, for my part I am a super correct girl who always end up schematizing everything. Then at the beginning of our relationship we had too many differences according to my perspective to him "Everything did not matter" and I then as a woman and dramatic at the end I made a film for everything that happened to us. He had the difficult task of breaking with what he used to call "My Demons" because my experience in love had brought many betrayals and therefore was a very distrustful woman, to that we add that I am a beautiful and spoiled single daughter so which always "I got used to things being done as I said". To my surprise, although he was willing to modify things in his life, he was not going to fulfill all my whims (I think that also came the shots of my previous failures). The daily fights began for totally insignificant things but in my eagerness to be right I did not see that I was also a cause of what was happening and that if I saw things from another glass maybe the whole situation could improve.
In December of last year I made the great decision to spend Christmas with my partner and his family in Carupano, Sucre State - Venezuela. For me it was something super new because in my 24 years I had never spent a Christmas or a New Year without my mother. One night when only a week to start, we already had purchased tickets, money saved and others found on their Facebook a conversation of the month when we started being boyfriends, exactly one week before our beloved 18 which is our anniversary date with a girl to whom I had something of anger, it turns out that the conversation was a bit of a tone according to my opinion because when I read it, I cried, cried and kicked. When he arrives at the house I was not there, I had gone with my frustration to my best friend's house I had at least 15 missed calls from him, without explanation I did not want to hear him, I just told him I did not want to talk to the fate only be with myself and think what I wanted to do with what happened. My surprise when I'm leaving my friend's house was out there on the stairs waiting for me, both told me that I agreed to talk to him was a long conversation, 4 hours to be exact where for the first time in my life I saw him crying, I saw a vulnerable being that I had never allowed myself to see. When explaining everything that happened, I gave myself the opportunity to see what it was about "Being the perfect couple" I did not want to see. Then I found out that it was the first time in his life that he was taking a girlfriend to his family, which really shocked me because he is very closed with his thoughts. From there we started to create a different reality, a relationship that was real and those that do not seem to be always good, that is not why I know that 50 and 50 always sometimes I just get up and only give the 10 because I can not give more and he tries to give the 90 and vice versa to me has also touched me . But that is always in spite of the circumstances we are in 100. If sometimes we do not talk to each other, when we are upset we just go to bed and spend that adrenaline moment and then in total calm we talk, we decided that the fighting is not they would exist among us because we chose to be one. Sometimes they fall but in the same way they rise.
Now comes the beautiful part, we choose to show us for life what we feel, this love so pure that it was born from a simple coincidence.
That I knew the most romantic part of him, and he the most corny part of me.
Little by little I was improving the technique as they say out there.
Every detail was filling every part of our life, each demonstration of affection made us stronger.
He became part of my life ...
And I became part of his.
Today we are below where we want to be, but higher than we thought. Every day that passes I realize that I chose well, that I got the man I want for the rest of my life. With which I am building a future, with that I want to have my 4 children. You know? To that I want to scold because he did not lower the lid of the pot, or because he did not take out the garbage hahahaha.
That man who makes me scream to the world that yes, indeed I fell in love!