Couldn't agree more.
I think people label others partly for the purpose of having some form of organization for their brain. Rather than just letting people, "be," they feel they must slot them somewhere.
It's human nature. But that's just an observation.
I prefer not to judge or slot whenever possible. Admittedly, there are times I must work on this also. But, I'm always striving to be better.
RE: Countless shades of colour in a world of 50 grays