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I also want to share with you the beautiful words that were written by Protopriest Vladimir PuchkovChildren need to be loved. It must be remembered that childhood is a very short and very important period in a person's life. And it must be a childhood. With love and affection, with enthusiasm and praise, with games, toys, leprosy and pranks. You can not give a child useful, not wanting to do pleasant things. If the child needs a new sweater, it can not be given for a birthday instead of a long-awaited toy. Yes, the toy is needed only for fun, and a sweater is a useful thing. But for "usefulness" the child will have decades of adulthood, and childhood is just for fun.You can not chide a little indiscretion for noisy behavior in the temple - he is for that and the child to spin, run and put a nose in all holes. It is enough to come with him to church closer to the moment of communion, so that he did not have time to get bored and did not seek, what would be distracted.You can not force a tomboy to repent of confession in unwillingness to do homework, dislike of school and poor academic performance. School, of course, is important and necessary, but it's wrong to blame for negligent attitude towards learning as a personal offense and, especially, to attribute it to the category of sins. In the end, the most serious adults "fell in love" with the school a few years after its graduation, and at the age of their children themselves went to the lessons reluctantly.But what about rigor? - you ask - strictness in pious education is necessary! Here's another nonsense ... Yes, if you want, there is no strictness at all. There is an inability to love, which is called rigor, seriousness, avarice for affection, praise, etc., and there are children brought up "in severity", and, more simply, unmarried. Being brought up without love, they very quickly learn how to love. Some are locked in themselves, others have complexes, others become embittered. Someone has a subconscious resentment against his parents, which, sooner or later, is taken out on close ones - spouses, children, those who are defenseless because of their own love.So, again I repeat, the child needs to be loved. And to behave with him so that parental love was obvious to him. Less to scold, more to explain. Do not punish the mood or in anger. Do not break these promises and do not lie "for good". Do not strive to develop in a little man those or other qualities at the expense of natural kindness, sincerity and honesty, which any child possesses in full. Sincere and reasonable parental love will always find a response in the child's heart, and then, growing up, your child will try to do everything not to sin against this love.Once again I repeat, these words were written by Protopriest Vladimir Puchkov