If any these signs hit home for you, it's time to take a hard look at whether this is a marriage you want to stay in.
You Aren't Having Sex Anymore
One warning sign would be that your relationship is totally sexless, says sex and relationship therapist
Megan Fleming , Ph.D. — or if you're having sex less than 10 times a year. After all, she says, it's intimacy that separates a romantic relationship from all other sorts of relationships you might have.
"When that's going out the window, it's a really big red flag." Jane Greer , relationship therapist and author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship, says that a lack of visible physical affection — like kissing or hugging — is also indicative of a real problem.You Have Nothing to Say to Each Other
When something comes up in life, whether that's a work event or any accomplishment and your partner
isn't the first person you're sharing it with — or one of the firsts, Fleming says that it may be that "you
prefer to get your needs meets outside the relationship." To that end, Greer points out that not having
any meaningful conversations aside from "rudimentary conversations about chores and things that need
to get done" is a warning sign that your relationship is not in a good place.