A lot of stories that we passed, happy or sad it becomes a gift that could make us better. All the things that we have learned during this journey led us to the right way as long as we try to learn everything and seeing everything as a chance to be a good person. It sounds like simple, but in practice sometimes we got failed.
Everyone knew the way we live in life with full of hope, opportunity, there is a winner and the other get lose. what was the meaning we can take lessons and get the answer to our question?
Just let it go and be thankful for the past. We learned so much as a poem "your experienced is a good teacher". So, do what do you think is important to you and don't let the other changes you except to the right way. Many ways to reach goodness, cause what did you see is right, it doesn't belong to you, and the wrong did you think is better to you.