this gives us an important lesson on what it is to build true love. Loving a partner when he is successful is easy, but love him when hit by disaster is another matter
We are a happy couple. Approximately two years we have become lovers, before finally he proposes me to be his wife. He is a kind and loving young man who loves his family and myself. I am very happy and grateful to get it as a lover, even my future husband.
However, exactly 6 months before we were married, my beloved was struck down. He was deceived. The money he was referring to he invested was taken away by his partner. Though the money is the money he will make savings funds to get married. We were confused, we became upset. But the love between us is getting stronger. We do not let this calamity pester our happiness. We did not postpone our wedding, because our extended family had met and we were unable to make them sad with this disaster. We can not afford to make our parents miserable. So we keep this all in our hearts and keep this event going as planned.
However, many plans have to be changed because of limited funds. Plus the funds are the savings. As a result, he no longer has more funds for our marriage. Existing salary we maximize for the cost of our wedding. Luckily, I still have a little stash. These deposits I maximize to buy my wedding dress and other purposes.
Sad it was, not infrequently these tears flow because of sadness. Because one of the dreams on my wedding day was to wear a wedding dress bought by my husband, but what power, the reality that exists forcing me to be more logical in thinking. I left my wish, and bought my own wedding dress with all the limited funds available. Not only that, my desire to capture the moment before marriage in prewedding photoshoot was hardly we can do.
But God is good, lucky, there is one of our talented acquaintances in photography offering to photograph us. Finally we prewed very simply, without a pretty dress (because we can not afford to rent a dress), and done in public places (because we can not afford to rent a studio or a cafe with a beautiful view). Everything we do is simple, yet happy and joyful.
There is much laughter that God entrusted to us through this tribulation. There are many conveniences that God gives in this difficulty. In fact, without us knowing God is helping us through our unthinkable hands. In the midst of our confusion in managing the finances available to meet the needs of marriage, suddenly there is our brother who offered us to use the services of his partner's car with half price. Not to mention our other siblings who gave us wedding gifts even before we got married. Yes our brother suddenly gave us a gift of wedding souvenir for all our guests.
It really touched us, because previously we were funding difficulties, so have not prepared souvenirs and bridal car. But God is amazingly good. The Almighty really helped us. He prepared all our needs, even the ones we had not thought of. ONE PER ONE OF OUR NEEDS GOD GIVES. So that without notice, our wedding plan is 90% complete. Just wait a few more weeks until we get married. And we are really grateful.
Make all the couples who are planning a wedding out there, certainly preparing a wedding is not easy, it takes excellent mental and good funds sufficient. But, remember, do not let all the challenges in realizing the marriage makes us forget the meaning of marriage itself and our love to God and our spouse.
God will always help His people, our part is to keep trying and surrender. And do not forget, loving couples who are successful is easy but still love the couple in the calamity it takes maturity. It's no longer about falling in love, but it's all about LOVE BUILDING. Because, like our partner's excess is falling in love, on the contrary, still love it even though he has shortcomings. It is the wake of love. Suppose planning a wedding is an early adventure in marriage, because the real adventure we will experience once we are legally married. Finally I want to write "I LOVE U CANDIDATE SUAMIKU" and "THANK YOU GOD, LOVE U".