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That is, a true friend is one who comes in handy in times of trouble. I strongly believe in this proposition. I often judge my friends under this sentence, but is this judgment correct? Let's see! There are many types of trials in the world financial, mental, physical and social. Because financial trials come to everyone and come often, they are the first to mention them.
- Financial Trial:
as the name implies, being tight with money. When any of us are in need of money, we turn our attention to those people in our circle of friends who can help us through this difficult phase. Each of us has this list in our mind all the time. . Such people can be among our relatives and also among friends.Friendship over? Well you will be sad but sometimes it will help you. That's why you would think that whenever I ask it for help, it will help me. If he can't, it doesn't mean he's no longer your friend, so it's not right to judge a friend on that criterion.
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2.Mental TRIAl :
Basically such problems are associated with all kinds of problems. That is, if you have any financial difficulty, it will also disturb your mind. Now who would you talk to in such a situation? Not everything is meant for everyone, nor can everyone understand everything. Now even in this situation you will know better which friend you should tell this to. Every person has a "go to person".
Whenever he has a problem, he runs to this person. Suppose "J" is your very good friend. You tell him everything from your heart. Today you are very sad. You tried to talk to "J" but he did not listen to you. Now you are angry with him in your heart, but will you think of breaking the friendship? You may even think in anger, but there will be many moments when "J" has boosted your morale
So forget these temporary feelings and move on and stop judging your friends with such
things. Now comes the turn of physical tests
3.Physical trials:
such as an accident, illness or disability. Undoubtedly, all these are very painful for human life. It is a great blessing to have someone with you in such a situation. But here again the issue arises that if no one can help?
If you start to get bored, then the friendship ends? Of course, all these situations require that as far as friends are concerned. It is also true that no one can walk in the world with the help of anyone, there is only one support and that is God. So put aside your basket of hopes with great satisfaction because it is not going to work. The thing to do is to hope less and do more good to make living in this world easier. As for supporting each other in difficult times, the one who supports is good and the one who doesn't is also good.
