Our parents has divorced when I was 6 years old. I didn’t saw anything bad in that, because I wasn’t shore what I can expected. After few days I realized the situation.
We must went to a lot of psychology by court law. That was really horrible. They just want hear all bad about our parents but brother and me didn’t say anything about our parents. One psychology testified before the court that our daddy is dangerous for us. Later we discovery that this psychology has been divorced several times and her son committed suicide. But anyway daddy was our. So we stay with him.
The relationship with mum was difficult. We didn’t se he really often. We was sad from that but We can’t do anything for that.
Daddy is cameraman so he used to travel a lot around the world but He must stopped it and took normal job and take care about us. He was really unhappy from that. We saw that he missing his real job. So we decided to live with grandmother when father will be on movie. It wasn’t easy but as well it wasn’t impossible.
In our age we was fighting with that a lot.
But we learned to take care about garden, house and housekeeping. It was just one moment when we was in fire. That was when someone tell us that we are paupers that we are with daddy. We cover him as much as we could.
But suddenly we realized that Is really good to be three guys in house. Well house wasn’t so nice but practice. We was going in to the mountains sleeping there under sky and more other things.
Of course it had a lot of disadvantages. But We didn’t want see them. Why? We hadn’t any choice. We just saw what we had and that was our father and a lot of nice memories.
We never ask for reason of divorced. Why? I don’t think that will be useful for us. The main think is that we never saw our parents in conflict or something like that.
When we became older we started live just with brother when father was in work. We learn how to be independent at all. We enjoyed these times a lot. When we take look back to the past. I see really happy and super times when I was children. I had really super childhood.
Now when I’m 20 years old. We see each other quite often on pint of beer or at home and talking about past and about our girls and other. Like three mans or brothers. We have got really special relationship between each other.
I can’t tell what is better if mum or dad. I can tell you that you support and be part of family. Doesn’t matter who is it. You must feel it.
Now I’m really successful runner and climber. I was on stock market. I was manager in big corporation. And still building myself and hope that I never stop. And this all till my 20 years.
My brother is camera technique man and doing movies with dad. Hope that you can find here any your answers.
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