The explanation of why the Michelson-Morley experiment did not measure any phase differences is pretty straightforward according to special relativity. See for instance the Wikipedia explanation using Lorentz contraction. The Ligo experiment, however, is much more subtle, since in principle the wavelength of the traveling beam of light would also be stretched by the gravitational wave, as are the arm lengths of the interferometer.
RE: Breaking Down the Michelson-Morley Experiment