Sometimes life gives you shit and when it does, you take it and slouge and be sad and be sad, as in and be sad some more. For sometimes you lose. It happens to the best of us.
Sometimes you will loose when you have not given it your best shot. Other times you will give it your best and still loose .For sometimes we lose.
It is not because your were not for it. Think about how hard someone else also put in. Sometimes they took it, not you. For sometimes you lose.
Its is just a cycle of life.Be sad, then pick up. Give the next thing your best. For when you lose, it only makes you more empowered for your next encounter. For sometimes we lose to win the next better shots.