So I was in a bus this afternoon coming back from school 🚸 , the traffic was long and many people were shouting, One of the guys in the bus said.
I need someone to tell me the best way to break up with a Lady without hurting her.
Just misbehave and she will walk away by Herself, a man replied.
But why do you want to break up with her? An elderly lady asked.
She is faithful to me and she is a nice Lady, just the type of Lady I would like to marry, but I am always ashamed of her. whenever I see other people's gf dressing richly, plaiting good hairs and smelling sweetly, its makes me wonder why mine can't be like that, she will just be styling her natural hair and she rarely plaits, she repeats cloths a lot and doesn't smell sweetly, I can't even go out with her cus of shame, I need a better girl, he replied.
I was the youngest in the bus and I wasn't suppose to put mouth in their discussion but I couldn't control my self.
Brotherly, you are admiring other people's girlfriends and wishing yours could be like them but what have you contributed in making your girlfriend to be like them? I asked.
From your dressing, you are neither broke nor poor. If money is showing on you, why not make it show a little on your gf and watch whether she won't look better than all the other girls you are admiring?
Lemme ask you;
About her repeating cloths, Have you for once passed by a boutique and saw a beautiful cloth, shoe, bag or bracelet and decided to surprise your gf with it? She styles her natural hair, when last did you take her to a beauty shop to make her hair or fix her nails? When did you ever credit her account and send her text like "baby, plait your hair and look good for me". Or is it the stipends you put in her hand after oiling that you expect her to use in buying new cloths, plaiting hair and looking good? did you give her money to plait her hair and she didn't?
About not smelling nicely, have you for once bought her a more than 2k worth perf or is it the 350naira pocket perf you bought for her that you expect her to wear and smell sweetly?
When last did you tell her to meet you at a fast food, cinema and others? All you keep saying is come to my house and because she is your main chick, you won't even bother cleaning up the house for her arrival and when she arrives and see dirty cloths thrown around, she will be forced to wash them and before she finishes, she has already sweated and when she enters the kitchen and see you didn't cook, she will decide to cook for you, and you will be laying in the room and cracking jokes for her to laugh in the kitchen and when she comes out smelling of heat and fish, you will say she doesn't smell nicely.
Most guys even spend more on side chick than main gf with the excuse of checking whether main gf is a wife material, nawa ohh.
Brotherly, you are even asking how to breakup with her as if you are doing her a favour by keeping her in the relationship. You are not doing her any favour but she is the one doing you a favour by remaining in the relationship because apart from money, they is nothing else a guy can offer in a relationship, The fact that she remains to you when you are not offering her the only thing a man offers in a relationship shows she is a correct wife material cus me, i would have walk out of the relationship before the count of 2.
You don't deserve her, a better man deserves her. she is suppose to be the one asking how to break up with you...
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