I want to say good job to her.
For choosing to pick yourself up off of the ground and press forward. To look beyond the sharp tongues of other girls and to be stronger for it. You are choosing to be better than them by not stopping to their level, making yourself stronger by not letting their hateful words bring you down but using them to press forward harder. The fact that you are using these experiences to recognize your beauty rather than flaws is so inspiring. And you are gorgeous. Truly a beautiful young woman.
You spoke such wise words, and i want to take this chance yo encourage you to keep going. To always remember you're strong, beautiful, and quite brave for taking this stance. You seem to have a better head on your shoulders than a majority of the people my age. I admire you for these things, and hope you never lose sight of your good qualities no matter how people try to pick apart your bad ones.
RE: When as a parent you know you are doing it right