- Crowds of people accuse that polygamy robs people of their husbands. Aku Akak ...
WRONG!
HERITAGE:
Polygamy that has a husband together legitimate according to religious shari'a. If it robs the meaning of the first wife there is no right anymore as divorced. If so, polygamy does not happen but monogamy.
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- Crowded people maintain that polygamy should be permitted by the old wife.
WRONG!
HERITAGE:
Polygamy does not need to ask permission to the wife.
When the Prophet married a beautiful Jewish woman named Shafiyyah bint Al-Akhtab, the Messenger of Allah informed Aisha that she married Shafiyyah. This made Aisyah so jealous and said, "She is a Jewish woman." And it was answered by the Messenger of Allah, "Do not say that because he has converted to Islam and also his Islam."
- Crowded people think that polygamy sins because it hurts a woman's feelings (make her jealous).
WRONG!
HERITAGE:
Polygamy is a husband's use of his rights, just sometimes envious wife (not one of those who use the right but one of the envy). Jealous form as a sign of love wife to the husband instead of the husband's treatment to hurt the wife.
Polygamy examines the woman's sincerity and disdain for God's provisions. The more sincere, the more rewards will be. The less sincere the more will be manifested in the form of anger and protest, the more sin will be.
On the subject of jealousy, the wives of Rasulullah and the wives of the Prophet's companions are also jealous of each other. However, this does not mean that the Messenger of Allah and the Companions hurt the feelings of his wives. If it is conceived that jealousy hurt the feelings of wives, then it is impossible for the Messenger of Allah and his Companions to be guaranteed to enter Paradise.
- Crowds of people who claim that today's polygamist is not able to act justly like the Prophet's time.
WRONG!
HERITAGE:
Being fair can be done by anybody, if and where alone is not limited by the times. If the people of the Prophet Muhammad should not be fair in polygamy, then polygamy will be banned absolutely. The Islamic law and the Koran according to all times including the verses justified polygamy.
- Crowded people who argue that the first wife must receive special service compared to second, third or fourth wife.
WRONG!
HERITAGE:
Such acts are the custom of the Jahiliyya people. After Islam came, then all customs were changed by Islam. After being legally married to a wife, all wives (1, 2, 3 & 4) have equal position, rights and duties to their husbands.
- Crowds of people accuse polygamy of taking old wife rights. WRONG!
HERITAGE:
In polygamy, husbands take and use their own quotas and rights. The second, third and fourth wives also use their own rights as well. The first wife, the second, third or fourth wife if it prevents and prevents the husband from fulfilling the rights of the other wives, that is the person who blocks the rights of 4 people and vice versa.
- Crowded people accuse that today polygamy just indulge in lust.
WRONG!
HERITAGE:
Polygamy is escorting lust rather than unlawful, disgraceful and sinful acts to be halal, praised and rewarded.
- Crowded people insinuate that if you are polygamy follow the sunna of the Prophet, look for widows who are not sold. WRONG!
HERITAGE:
To get married, the Prophet did not advocate choosing widows, even encourage choosing a girl or widow / embarrassment in accordance with the taste so justified to see the prospective wife first.
- Crowded people think that polygamy just brought a lot of trouble.
WRONG!
HERITAGE:
Polygamy overcomes the problem of the husband to be more awake view and escort lust. In addition, it helps women's issues that require attention, supervision, educational guidance, livelihood and protection. Polygamy is also a solution when crowds of widows and shy and 'andalusia' are lonely.
Just a knowledge, bkn to dibahaskan to dikongsi fellow friends. May there be goodness for God's ability to choose and to sow devotion.
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