But I accept that you didn't know that, so I can only commend you on how well you defended your dad - in a way that was firm, to the point, but also respectful to me. I could tell you didn't like me much, but you managed to hold your feelings to one side, and talk me through things clearly. Your dad should be proud of raising a sensitive rational thinker, and you should be proud of having a dad who wants to help two sides find common ground.