Oh darling, yes you can. I don't need a woman or a man to make me feel like a slut. I know that I ooze with sexuality and just because I could have sex with the people that approach me doesn't mean I do it every time. I had to really understand myself and not so shame my dirty mind and mouth when it came to sex. In the past, I have gone months without having a partner but I would make sweet love to myself. I'd take myself out to dinner and clean up and masturbate so slow it would be impossible for me to move without cumming. Self love is sooooo healthy. Fuck yourself and love it. Other people will start to see how happy you are and they want what you have.