I just had a revelation watching Proxy Paige getting some DP action. I am not even kidding. Insecure women might get something good out of watching more porn. Here’s why:
Understanding men will be much easier.
I mean…come on. We all have sexual urges. Why are we always so hard on men? Their biological make-up makes them even more prone to seek relief than women. Where you go out with your make-up on and you little dress and earrings, looking for attention… he jacks off to some MILF. Is that really as bad as you make it out to be? I know that it makes a lot of us women feel bad about ourselves and I used to be one of them, but I realized that masturbation means nothing to men. Most of the time it’s a nuisance to them. Let’s help them out by making them feel more human about being a human. It’s not some thing that they do because they are trying to hurt us. And I am speaking from a perspective of logic here. If the guy does it to hurt you, then don’t take it. But if he just wants to bust one and you ain’t there to help him, what’s the harm?You will see that porn stars are not perfect either!
…and most importantly…that there are a lot of men who don’t really care for perfect women. All kinds of stuff happens in a porno and they don’t edit it out. Just today there were some rather strange sounds coming from certain areas of this girls body. But she just integrated it into her ‘act’ and laughed about it. Hell…isn’t that uplifting? In a gross way it really was. Women feel so bad about themselves, so forced to be this ‘un-human’ doll of perfection…and why? I am starting to believe that we are doing it to ourselves. That the media is using our insecurity as just another way to profit off of misery. Don’t buy into it, ladies! Porn stars fart! Sometimes unwanted stuff comes out! They have fat rolls, hell…I saw something the other week with a BBW and she had like 600.000 views. So if 600.000 people want to look at her, I am sure there are a lot more people out there finding me attractive than are willing to actually admit it.
- You will be more likely to be sexually ‘sane’ after you have exposed yourself to it!
Let’s be honest, girls…we are not innocent when it comes to promiscuity and perverted thoughts. But we hide it. Constantly. More efficiently and more often than men. The media demonizes our sexuality while flaunting it at the same time. But fuck the media! We are biological beings with sexual urges and it is absolutely the opposite of healthy to deny them. Most sexual perversion comes from repression. Any psychologist will tell you that. So don’t repress. Be you! And if that you doesn’t ‘fit’ into society, then fuck society. I think porn could help us open up to things and also realize that there are certain things that we don’t want, what we want and who we are. Of course there is a possibility of it going totally the wrong way and we need to be aware of that, but I believe most women to be able to come to this understanding. Exposing ourselves to what we are afraid of might just help us become detached from it enough to feel better about it.
- We all need to feel more human!
On a more spiritual note I would like to remind us all that we are beautiful, holy beings. In the words of Mooji: “It is precisely that I don’t accept your version of yourself […], this is the only reason I can serve you. The things you say about yourself are simply not true. I know you. I know every single being. When I look in your eyes I know who dwells there. And I know the state of that one to be perfect and holy.” YOU ARE HOLY! Regardless of what the world tells you to think about yourself, you are a beautiful creature of duality and you deserve to be loved. I don’t care about what you do when you are alone in your bedroom. I don’t care about your secrets and your flaws. You are beautiful! And so is everyone around you. You embracing sexual openness simply means you are fighting the detachment of your body and soul which is caused by a sick society who wishes to profit off of you. Stop believing them and rebel on!
So what have we learned?
Porn is not all bad! And it might be useful in many ways! So fight repression, fight oppression and embrace love!