Respectfully, I must disagree. I honestly believe that we all know the solutions to our problems, because in the end no one can know us better than we know ourselves (at least I hope so). From there I think different categories emerge, there are those who seem to thrive in misery and enjoy being able to complain and cannot envision their lives any other way; there are those who know the answers yet don't have the motivation or strength to make necessary changes; there are those who don't care enough to aspire towards change; and then there are those who take astounding leaps and choose to be happy. Then again we can all be all of these depending on the day sometimes. One thing that is inevitable is change!