It does not sound it will work, right? Or does not seems like directly connect with 'our positive attitude'. But believe me this on is very close to negative attitude. So if we can get rid of making excuses we will automatically boost up our positive energy.
If we notice properly we can get to see, how much time we get backward by making an excuse. Not just to others to ourselves too. It's a harmful behavior. Blaming others for our own miss-deed or miss fortune would not solve anything. It is enough to make us frustrated and will block our path to step forward.
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There are actually some simple steps we all can follow to make us gradually come out from the black hole and live a positive life.
We have to stop comparing ourselves to others. Feel confident about what you have. It will help us to think positive about ourselves and help to regain our our positive attitude.
We have to approve our mistakes. I mean we are human. There is nothing to ashamed of for our mistakes. But feel ashamed if you are not approving it and blaming others for that.
Try to take responsibility for your own work. Be responsible in your personal and professional life both. No matter what your position is.
Don't overload yourself with unattainable goals. This will force you to make excuses. Rather set small, attainable goals. It will add up at the end of the day.
Don't focus on your weaknesses. It will kill you gradually. It will automatically produce some excuses why you did not do certain things or why you are not on certain position. Better focus and tell yourself what you can do.
After all we have to learn from your mistakes. This is very important if you want to step ahead in your life. We all used to say life game us a hard lesson and we are not gonna make the same mistake again. But times passes by and we forgot what we did earlier or does not take it seriously. But learning form our mistakes really helps us to grow up and build a better strategy for the future.
I hope it helps a bit to tie up our life to go forward for a mindful life!