Today, I learned and relearned the benefits of communication in a relationship. I got talking to married people and also the single ones like me about relationships and everyone shared their thoughts.
Comimg from one of the lady who was a part of the conversation, she explained how she felt when she first met her man. She explained how good he was, he never wanted to see her cry nor sad, he was ready to listen to her and do all what she says. What are your thoughts? She has found her Mr. Right. That’s the exact way I feel.
Then, after six months, things started to go bad. He no longer reaches out to her. No calls, no texts or the littlest thing which feels like a reassurance that he is still interested in the relationship.
Do you all know the height of it all, he told her that he would be going out with another lady on his birthday? How does he want her to feel? She didn’t take it seriously at first until they began to have everyday arguments either online or offline.
After thinking about it, she started to pray fervently and within three days of prayer, things went back to normal. Not completely normal but she was starting to feel the vibes of the relationship again till they completely became good and even have a stronger relationship than before.
I know if you’ve come this far with me, you may actually advice that she leaves the guy because of the disrespect and all. That’s normal but for those in the relationship pool, they will let you know how messed up it is. There is nothing outside and if you decide to leave your partner and start looking for another one, it will take so much time.
Also, I’m not trying to talk you into leaving your partner. If you do not like the energy, leave but if you feel it is something which can be changed or managed and it doesn’t have to affect your mental health, please, stay. Loneliness itself hurts a lot.
If you ever notice a change in your partner, why not pray? Pray hard about it and you’ll surely get a feedback from God. Relationship doesn’t really have to make you feel sad when you’re with the right person.
The wrong partner can mess up your whole life and this is why you have to take fervent prayers in relationships seriously. I’ve met some people who do not want to get married as well. They may have their reasons but I’m shocked.
If God can create a woman for Adam, it practically means that we all need each other. You need a man and a woman nedds you. This is how it should work but now, there are so many users everywhere and they make the whole thing tiring for the serious ones. I hope the best men end up with the best women.
Thank you all for reading this far.