what's up guys and the topic for this article for this series is going to be confidence and knowing your self-worth so the reason I kind of want to talk about this is because I find a lot of people don't talk about it but it is something that a lot of women are lacking and I see it daily so let's talk a couple of things and tips and tricks that I have
so one is I don't understand why so many women lack confidence in who they are and who they want to be we are all so much more worth it than what we think and I don't think we give credit to ourselves as how freaking amazing we are and I know it's a skill that you need to develop over time and confidence is not something that you just kind of gain all of a sudden it's something that really needs to come from within so you really need to work on your inside first and be okay with yourself and understand who you are as a person and what you want out of life and from there you're able to manifest it and show who you are and not take no for an answer and not take shit from anybody so um I see a lot of people not being confident and I think one of the reasons is the comparison I guess that you do that you do on on Instagram because we are in a social media world nowadays and I think there's we're looking in on everybody's life thinking wow everyone's more deserving than I am Wow look at her and her family I'm her three kids and she's a millionaire or oh look at her in her career and her family life and kind of were exposed to everybody's life and what we display on social media and Facebook and obviously all the platforms that we're on is in the best part of our day no one's there showing you the hard part the part where they were crying the part where they weren't feeling good all we're doing is she's showing our best self all the time and back not to play with your mind got to play with your head so it's just it's important to remember that in this social media life and world it is not always what it looks like okay number one people are people everyone's struggling everyone will have bad day everyone have a good day about that that's fine but I don't think looking in on other people's life should really affect your life and you shouldn't get you know D motivated or depressed or you know by seeing other people succeed if anything seeing all this greatness unleash equals a great life and all their best moments and displays that they do is should really want to meet you to make your life better so it's really about the mindset it's about how you approach different situations you could either a be a hater and just like hate on everybody who's doing better than you and just bla bla bla talk shit about everybody or you use that as motivation and be like you know what I want to be just like her I want to be just like that guy I want to be just like X person and use that to fire you and to motivate you so it really depends what kind of person you are and that will be how you will attain goals and success you need now that we've got the social media stuff out of the way just quick recap is how to be confident and how to live your best life here are my top five tips that I live by and it's made such a big impact in my life and I really hope they stay well on Mars so number one is getting rid of useless people who are negative and who bring absolutely nothing to your life so if someone's not nourishing you it's not helping you be a better person it's not helping you grow it's not letting you get to the next level cut those fucking people out what um I'm just going back the first one it's something that I've done basically my whole life if you're useless to me if I don't think that you're worth me keeping in my close circle friends and you're negative is negatively impacting my life out and honestly I've never looked back once on anyone that I've cut up that I was like oh I should've cooked now I really really wish they were back no nobody so it definitely works it really lets you become who you are it really lets you nourish and expand and really become a great version of yourself because if they're constantly bringing you they're constantly trying to keep you at a lower level then you're never going to see that change and how good it is once you get those people out of your life second is being more confident I see this so often you guys especially women you guys are not confident you have self self you no doubt you have no self-esteem for whatever reasons it is for comparing your life with other people for comparing your looks with other people whatever it is please stop if you're not confident and you don't take pride in who you are and have a self motivation like it's gonna be really hard every day is gonna be a struggle so please become a little more confident I know it's hard to say and confidence is something that you build up over the years it's something that you need to work on daily so even if it means talking to the mirror and telling yourself that you're the fucking best person out there and that you're beautiful and that you're hot and that you're cool and you're smart do it it doesn't matter even if other people think you're crazy whatever it is that will help you get confident do it down and also confidence starts at the inside level you need to be comfortable with who you are and be content with who you are as a person before you can kind of reflect that confidence so during the time that you're kind of building that confidence up they can tell you make it yep promise you once you have confidence the world is yours that's it because with low self-esteem I'm telling you you will never get to where you will you were you deserve to be if you don't believe that anything is deserving for you you know when you have self-esteem issues you're gonna think you know you know why I don't deserve a better guy you know he treats me like crap but you know you know I'll take it I guess that's what I deserve or I deserve a shitty husband I deserve a shitty job I'm not happy with my life but you know this is what I deserve no you fucking deserve the best you deserve to be on top of the world to have the best husband in the world to have the best kids in the world to have you know what it is that your mind desires it's all up to you literally we live in a world where no matter what your classes like no matter where you come from what country how you were brought up your past has nothing to do with what your future will look like so it's really up to you to get out there to get the experience and you want to hustle hustle hustle talk to the right people and get to where you want in life there's zero fucking excuses okay I hear way too many excuses and there are zero okay tip number three and it's really short because I think I make these videos really long and I'm trying to just make them cute small to the point I talk a lot is opinions comments and other people trying to run your life are not okay and you should block that out when people make comments about you or about what your decisions were in life or about your actions put it away learn to follow your instincts to learn to follow your heart and your mind and not care so much about other people's opinions because guess what whether you do something right or you do something wrong or you choose a or each's beat there's gonna be fuckin people talking out there giving you their opinion and guess what a lot of us follow the opinion they follow whatever it is that their parents thought that they should become in life yes they hate their job there's too many times we listen to our partners in what we should be doing with our lives when we should be having kids when we should do this a lot of people just listen to what other people have to say and they follow that even though that's not what they truly wanted so if there's one thing that I will leave you guys with and start listening to yourself what is it that makes you happy what is it your passion what is it that you want to be fuckin doing every single day of your life it's not what your husband has to say it's not about what your parents have to say it's not about where your employer thinks that you should be doing or your next promotion should be X it's what do you want and I really recommend that you take time to evaluate write your goals down even if your goals are crazy and you think you will never attain it if it's mine be a billionaire by the end thousand I can't even though it's crazy I'll still write it down who cares there's no limit on how high or big you want to dream but the time you've learned to dream and the time that you learn to really think outside the box and know that you're worth so much more that's when you start to grow and that's when you start to see changes