We're two weeks after the new year and everything seems a mess carrying over the last year. With the problems in Splinterlands and Hive despite the supposed to be success, this year feels heavier even as I just started. To release some of this pressure, I wanted to join this week's Ladies of Hive Challenge. The topics are coincidence but cannot be more on point.

"The year just began! What have you decided to release for a better year? Have you noticed any small wins from it yet? If it’s too early, simply share what you chose to release."

What I Decided to Release This Year

This year, I decided to release the habit of being too hard on myself. I noticed that I always focus on what I didn’t and cannot do instead of what I actually finished. Even small mistakes stay in my head longer than they should. I want to stop carrying that kind of pressure throughout the year.

It’s still early in 2026 but I already noticed a small win. I don’t panic as much when things don’t go exactly as planned. When I miss a task or feel tired, I try to remind myself that I am not a failure. Letting go of self-blame feels uncomfortable at first but I know that it also makes me feel better in the long run.

I also realized that being kinder to myself makes it easier to keep going, to pick yourself up when you're down. Before, I would get stuck thinking about one mistake and end up doing nothing at all. Now, I try to see mistakes as part of learning instead of something to be ashamed of.

Closing Thoughts

This year is the start of something new and everything that's new means potential. It's potential to change and improve. It’s not perfect and I still slip once in a while but at least I’m more aware. That small awareness already makes me feel like the year will get better and I would get better as well the longer this year goes.